One consideration in choosing a tuxedo is what shape lapel is most fashionable and suitable to your frame. The shawl collar lapel is somewhat old-fashion, but still a classic. This style is a good choice for a man who wants something a little different, but still traditional. The peak lapel and notch lapel are far more common. The peak lapel is best suited to men with a slender frame who want to look a bit broader through the chest. If you have a broad build I would not recommend it. …

Trying to pick out what shoe you should wear for the next big night out on the town? How about to a business casual seminar?
What are the features of a dressy shoe?

The pointier the toe, the more dressy the shoe
The shiner the shoe, the more formal/dressy the shoe
Laces are more formal than slip-on shoes

What color shoes go with my suit?

Brown or oxblood shoes with a navy suit
A black or gray suit should be worn with black shoes, although many Italian men will wear brown shoes with a black or gray …

From esquire.com

Love letters are always a welcome surprise and a wonderful keepsake. Here are a few tips for writing the perfect love letter.

How to tie an ascot
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Many of you are probably here becuase you read what I had to say about ascots in USA Today. If you are …

Gossip Girl seems to be attempting to single handedly bring back the ascot. Chuck Bass, one of the main characters, tends to wear his ascot well tucked in, kind of as a subtle accent peaking out from under his collar. I was not able to find a good picture, but Chuck is a great example of how to wear an ascot in a modern fashion. Above you can see a hint of pink ascot peeping out from beneath his shirt, much classier than exposed undershirt or chest hair. So, the …